Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Winter Wonderland!

Moses had his first snow! No way will he remember it and no way did he know what was going on but it was exciting for us. Luckily, with couponing and buying deals we were well stocked on food. Everyone gives Southerners a hard time for going a little nuts when they predict snow, but I want to remind those Yankees that we do not have the equipment to handle that kind of weather. We bounce back quicker from hurricanes! Anyways, I learned my lesson in college. Freshman year we were stranded on campus in 20 inches of snow for a week and then senior year we didn't have power for a week due to an ice storm. I SO learned my lesson about getting all the laundry done and having some extra supplies just in case.
Anyways, my parents and I have always had a family rule that if you see snow in the middle of the night you wake up the rest of the family so Brett and I are starting that tradition too. At 4:30am Brett woke me up and told me to come with him. He turned on the back yard lights and there it was! Big flakes were starting to fall! I went back to sleep only to be awoken by Moses at 6am. We put him in the bed with us and kept warm for another hour or so. To my surprise it kept snowing. We ventured outside around 10:30am. I really didn't think we were going to use that snow suit my parents gave him for Christmas! We walked around with him and took some pictures. He kept looking at us like, why are we outside in the cold? It must have been very exhausting for him because he slept from around 11am till 1:30pm! He hasn't done that since he was a few weeks old!
Brett and I used that time to make some pasta to warm us up. I walked outside some more just enjoying the snow. I love how quiet it gets. It's almost like the snow is muffling all the noise of the world and everything is clean and new. I think it finally quit snowing around 2pm and total we have over 7 inches. The most we have had in about five years. This has given us a four day weekend together...maybe five if it has not cleared up tomorrow. The only thing is that with all the new technology Brett can work from home which means he doesn't have the day off. Sometimes technology is not so great! Still wonderful to have him home! Hope everyone enjoyed the snow!

Friday, January 16, 2009

Where is this month going?

It seems like this week has flown by! As far as Moses' milestones and "new things" I do have a few! He is really starting to sit up pretty well. Still not consistently but he is holding his own. We are starting to refer to him as the wiggle worm because he wants to be doing something constantly. He is also starting to get in the push up position some when he is on his belly. I have a feeling crawling is not far off. So, at five months old we are weighing in at 16.9lbs and 26.75 inches long. We did have a check up yesterday due to that same stopped up tear duct. He is now getting some drops which have helped a lot.
Last Friday we started a playgroup. We have about ten mommies with babies ranging from 5 weeks to 8 months. It has been SO AWESOME. I love all of the girls and it is so fun to have lunch and sit on a quilt and watch the babies play. We can swap lots of war stories and get advice from each other. Moses is already playing and interacting with the other babies. All of us really enjoy it.

I'd also like to update everyone on the sleep issues that I mentioned several weeks ago. Things are so much better. Moses has been sleeping through the night nearly every night. Morning naps are going well, but we struggle in the afternoon. Brett has started getting up earlier to spend some time with Moses in the morning. This is helpful especially if I have had to get up in the middle of the night. I also think it is great for the two of them. Since I am at home all day with him, I realize how little awake time during the week Brett actually gets with Moses. The mornings are his happiest times so it is very special for them to have that time.

Another update is with solids. Moses HATES the rice cereal so we have moved on the applesauce and soon other fruits and veggies. He liked those much better, but is still not too thrilled with it. It is so strange because he is also so into what we are eating. He even grabbed a handful of Brett's ice cream at church on Wednesday.
Sorry about the long post! I will try to do it more often. We have some adventures awaiting us this week. (New cooking equipment and visitors!) Love from all of us!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Moses' Dedication!


Sunday was a very special for our family. Moses was dedicated at Hayes Barton! I have watched so many baby dedications over the past few years and it was one of the first things I thought of when the shock of being pregnant wore off.


I was very nervous that Moses would have some freak crying spell which would be totally out of character for him or worse have an "accident" while we were up there...not so out of character! Of course everything was fine. He did get a little squirmy as I was handing him over but he listened very intently to what Dr. Hailey had to say.


After church we had a reception for him in the youth room at the church with all our friends and family. It was so nice for everyone to spend time with Moses and each other. It was the best way I knew how to thank those who have been a special part of our lives. Katherine Teague, Elizabeth Hamilton, Melissa Barker and Bill and Kathy Teague were my angels who helped mom and I with the food and decorations. I honestly do not know what I would have done without them. They made my life SO easy that day. I also did not know Bill had such superior decorating skills! I love you all and thank you for helping us not only the day of the dedication but whenever I seem to need you. I will close with the verse we chose for Moses:


For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you maybe filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that you will walk in the manner of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. - Colossians 1:9-10

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Dear Sweet Husband

Two years ago tonight we said "i do" which now means we will. We will have a great marriage and work to make it better every day. We will be wonderful parents to our son and hopefully more little Barkers. We will laugh often and love deeply.

Thank you so much for being such a wonderful husband and father. I can't imagine anything better!

Monday, January 5, 2009

The night before...

I had a great time at our rehearsal dinner. I am pretty sure everyone else did too. We were the first people to book an even at the State Club. I was nervous because I always go on personal referrals for everything I do. It turned out to be absolutely beautiful. It was so nice to get to spend extra time with the people we were closest to that weekend.


I think what everyone remembers most about that night is the "Brett Barker Filibuster." Brett is not shy about talking and given even more liquid courage he can go on and on...and he did. We still laugh about it when Brett gives toasts at other weddings. We start giving him the wrap it up signal before he even gets started!I didn't want to leave when the limo came to get us. Joelle, Erin and I hopped in the car with my parents. That is when my parents learned that the three of us were still a little energized from all of our dancing and wine consumption. My favorite quote for the ride home.."Let's eat Doritos...because we can!"

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Anniversary Week!

Tuesday we will celebrate two years of marriage. Yippeee!!! So I am going to hopefully post some reflections of that weekend and honeymoon week as well as some of my favorite pictures. I am sure all of you have seen them a MILLION times but every girl thinks her wedding pictures are special and fabulous so please indulge me!

Getting married in January after the holidays was the best idea. No one really has plans and most people are kind of bummed that all the parties and fun are over. The only big fear I had about the entire thing was an ice storm. I wasn't worried about no one showing up, but that my poor father would be busy organizing power crews and not able to enjoy himself. Well, being that you can never tell what winter weather can be like in NC, we were very pleasantly surprised to be dealing with temps in the 70's. Who would have thought?

I spent the few days before the wedding holed up in a hotel with my buddy and maid of honor Joelle. SO MUCH FUN!! She was exactly the calming influence I needed. She even kidnapped my phone for two hours one day and insisted I nap. I also had a hotel full of friends and family for the rest of the weekend. It was wonderful. By the way. The pictures that I post are some my friend Holly took. My "professional" photographer is very old school and does a great album so I wanted some for online that I could share. She is wonderful!